At Harbor Consulting & Advocacy, we are committed to advancing access and equity in education by guiding families through the often complex special education process.
Our mission is to equip students and their families with the knowledge, tools, and confidence they need to advocate for their educational rights and to work in partnership with school leaders, teachers, and service providers.
Through our Executive Functioning Coaching, students gain lifelong skills to manage their thoughts, actions, and emotions. They learn how to stay organized, focused, self-regulated, and ready to get things done.
Our Consulting and Advocacy Services give parents and caregivers personalized guidance and support, empowering them to confidently take an active role on their child’s IEP team and ensure their child receives the services they deserve.
I’m Amanda DeStefano, founder of Harbor Consulting & Advocacy of the Outer Banks. With nearly 20 years of experience in special education—spanning classrooms and leadership roles across the U.S. and international schools—I’m dedicated to ensuring every child has access to the education they deserve. My passion is helping families navigate the special education process with confidence, clarity, and the support they need to see their children thrive.
Let’s connect to find the best approach and services to support your child.
Personalized support for families navigating the special education journey. At Harbor, we partner with your child’s school and serve as your liaison, guide, and advocate every step of the way.
Individualized sessions that help students build practical skills in organization, time management, and self-regulation so they can thrive both in and out of the classroom.
Experiences designed to upskill the educational community to meet learners where they are and help them succeed.
Recognizing that every child has unique strengths and every family has different needs.
With years of experience and a commitment to student success, I bring a wealth of knowledge, perspective, and compassion.
My role is to simplify the Special Education process through personalized consulting sessions while empowering your child to grow. Together, we’ll build their self-regulation, confidence, and skills to successfully navigate both school and social challenges.
I take a whole-child approach, nurturing your child’s academic goals while also supporting their social-emotional needs.
